Apr 16, 2014
Are you worried that you might not have the most suitable ideas for your best man speech? Is your situation delicate as your own dear brother asked you to be his best man? In this article, I will present a model of best man speech you could use. However, when I say use, I mean that you add your own ideas, your own personality, your own creativity and you make it suitable to the wedding itself. Some of the below presented ideas would feel so great to some people, while others would feel hurt by such things.
Okay, so here is your best man speech example:
“Hi everyone! Can I please have your attention for a couple of boring minutes? Oh, I’m kidding, actually my name is Brian and I am the best man. We’re all here to celebrate my brother’s wedding. I am more than excited to be here and I am so grateful to every one of you, for being here at this wedding. You have no idea how much happier my brother is to have all of you gathered here to celebrate his marriage with his beautiful wife! More
Feb 27, 2014
There are many things to setup, to know and to discuss whenever there is an opportunity for you to give a best man speech. It can happen that your brother or your best friend just invited you and now you have a brand new duty, which is that you prepare a speech for the sake of his happiness, to show him that there is respect from your side and that you can (and will) honor his wedding with your presence. Also, this commitment means that you are dedicated to come up with some new best man speech ideas. Why are new ideas needed, aren’t these like impossible to be invented?
The truth is that people are more than tired of any ideas that were once used. Trust me, every one of us has a sense within to detect if anything is fake, copied or written by someone else. With your wedding speech, copying ideas or entire speeches isn’t at all what you need. What you need instead is some inspiration to help you with writing your own version, into which you bring your own personality, your own style and flow of words.
Have a tablet? Here is something you can do!
Most of us, especially men, do have tablets. We use them for a lot of purposes, such as watching online videos, checking Facebook accounts or logging in to several email accounts. But let’s put it this way: did you ever use your tablet in any kind of way to write a wedding speech? I guess there are only a few people nowadays that have the ability or the sense of creativity to realize that a tablet, for instance, has more than dozens of efficient tools and options to help write a great best man speech.
Obviously, most tablets can take photos. Why do I even mention photos, what do they have to do with the speech preparations? As a unique idea, you can take some pictures of some locations, magazines or anything of which symbolizes your relationship, your friendship with the groom. Then, these photos can serve two different purposes (or two main purposes), which we will now mention. More
Feb 27, 2014
You might now wonder whether this article is a real on or simply a joke. I mean, how can everything be of help when writing a best man speech? Indeed, everything can help you, but this can only happen as long as you allow it to happen. The key thing you need, to make things happen, is being open-minded enough to notice how this or that can assist in the process of writing, editing, practicing and finally delivering your speech, respecting all of its aspects and making sure that the quality is great. I am pretty sure that all of these things matter to you, a lot!
Best Man Speech Jokes
Now, there are basically two ways jokes could help you to deliver a funny best man wedding speech!
The first way is listening to jokes or simply reading them from books, online from joke websites or from social networking sites such as Facebook, Twitter and others. How can the jokes help? You see, while some jokes were only written to make fun of some real life situations, other jokes are written to put the focus on things that many people make, mistakes or bad character that causes bad things. These jokes, while putting things in a funny way, can enlighten the path that one should follow in life, especially in marriage. After all, marriage is also social interaction, since you get to be with your husband/wife all the time.
The second way jokes would definitely help is that if you choose some great jokes and include them in your funny speech. However, this is a dangerous game to play, since not every joke is supposed to be there in a wedding speech. While some jokes are of good humor and make perfect sense, other jokes are simply rubbish or undesired during your speech. How to distinguish and how to know which joke can come and which should be left out? More
Feb 27, 2014
You can always come up with new ideas, new approaches to wedding speeches and this includes the groomsman speech too, among others. However, some creativity, free time and devotion are needed in order to bring in something great, something new.
The bride and groom’s family members will definitely be looking forward to your groomsman wedding speech and the thoughts you are going to share with them. If you open up your heart, letting everybody know about your unique relationship with the groom, then you will have the opportunity to give a good enough speech, so that people can enjoy and understand what you are saying.
If the groom is your brother, then you have an easier task here. Still, in some cases where the brother-brother relationship wasn’t too great, things can get a bit weird or complicated, especially if your parents know that you didn’t have a great time together. However, if this is your case, you can take advantage of the opportunity of your own speech to tell your brother that despite of your past misunderstandings and despite the fact that you had your hard moments, you love him and you are there to support him forever, whenever he needs you in just about anything. If your brother will hear these words, he will definitely be happy for what you just offered and he will surely appreciate your love and brotherly concern, he will be able to appreciate how you would sacrifice your time, money and hobbies just to be there and help in the right moment. More
Feb 27, 2014
In order to bring out a little more from your speech, you need to be a person who is able to focus on as many details as possible. As you would probably guess, it’s not a success for everyone to be able to have more, to provide more with their best man speeches.
Preparing the speech text and other preparations
A best man speech always, without any exception, starts with preparing the actual speech text. Yes, it’s not a story, but without preparing something you can’t really succeed, even if you think that you have a lot of talent in these things. The truth is that even the masters, even the professionally practicing people need training and warm up in their areas so that they can provide what we expect from them. The same applies for any best man speech.
From the first day you took some time to begin writing the wedding speech, until the day you finally get a great version that goes great to the final speech, you have preparing to do. You see, it is always a fact that the first version of any wedding speech is not even half of what presentable means. This is normal, because most of us don’t come with any experience in writing such speeches, especially not wedding speeches. However, if you delivered another best man speech before, that might help you to have some ideas and thoughts on the current one and to be able to make it better than without that background. But that doesn’t mean that experience requires no preparations in advance. More